Thursday, March 31, 2011

Pofta Buna!

Nicoletta's homemade pickles
Salata de beufe
Couldn't resist adding some more delicious dishes to the blog. While Romanians take great pride in their cooking and dishes are beautifully prepared, you have to know that everything is made at home. Usually made from vegetables and fruits from the garden and meat and eggs from the animals they own. Lots of people even make their own cheese and yogurt and even margarine. Each time I asked the ingredients of a dish I was surprised at how basic they were. It's what is done with them is what's so impressive! Here are some of the things that have appeared at various dinner tables I've sat at over the past week or so.. Pofta Buna!!

Here is what I ate when I had dinner at Nicoletta and Daniel's house this week. Daniel is Ovi's youngest brother.
We had salata de beuf, potatoes, a beef dish, homemade pickles, and bread.
For dessert we had a fresh
fruit compote and and foi (from wafers) with cream





 Spent at evening at Daniel and Ina's this past Tuesday. Ina made a
 delicious chicken cordon blu, potatoes and salad. Her dessert (baton) was like chocolate fudge and was fantastic!

Had a couple of other meals this week that were new to me. Chicken liver wrapped in bacon and pane (pa-nay) carne which is liver with a fried coating. It was served with a delicious spinach dish.. all were made by Doina. She said most Americans don't like liver, and I have to say it's not my favorite. But if it's prepared right and wrapped up in a nice piece of bacon it's irresistible!
Ina's 'baton'

Galuste
Placinta
Placinta cross section
Doina's Spinach
On another night this week I was treated to something I had never had before in Romania- Placinta (pla-chin-ta). They are a cake type pastry filled with one of the following: pumpkin, walnuts, sweet cheese, cabbage, or salty cheese. I also had galuste (ga-loosh-tay) which is made from flour, eggs and water. Very simple (but requires some quality time in the kitchen) and VERY delicious! Both were made by Doina's sister Ica who is a former RCE staffer and Sunshine School cook.


More Romanian Words of the day:

Chocolate bars= baton (ba-ton)
Cheese= brinza (brin-za)
Spinach= spanac (spa-nock)

IMPORTANT NOTE:  This is the SECOND blog post for today, Thursday March 31st!
Check out the first one on Darius House/Amy's House

 




RCE's 'Houses'..

In 2007 RCE entered into partnership with the Romanian Government to run the 'Darius Houses'. They are recuperative homes for abandoned, disabled children. Each of three houses is home to 8-10 children. Most of the children who live in the 'Darius Houses' attend RCE's Sunshine School, which is only a short walk away. Some of the other higher functioning children attend a city school.

Darius House Team
The Darius Houses have a large staff of assistants for the children, two cooks, two nurses, a psychologist, social worker, book keeper and a director. For the children who need it, one on one and group physical therapy and speech therapy is available through the Sunshine School. RCE Social Team and Sunshine School psychologists also play a vital role in helping the children.

Maria the cook
Maria the social worker
RCE's Social Team/Speranta Copiilor is always at work trying to find families for the children. They go out to individuals, organizations and churches to generate interest in the adoption and placement of these needy kids. Several children  have been placed in families from the Darius Houses and just this week Elisie will move out of RCE's care and into HIS new family!

Lucian
Andrea, Darius House Staff
Elena
The Darius House Team is lead by Lucian Bradean, Maria the social worker, Ruben the psychologist, and Elena who helps keep the books. All work collaboratively with other RCE staff to assure that the children under RCE's care at the Darius Houses receive the best care possible.  When the kids 'age out' of the Darius Houses and have goals directed toward independent living and possible job training, they could make a move across the RCE yard to 'Amy's House'.

Ghitza, Otto and Manu of Amy's House
 
Amy's House opened nearly one year ago in May of 2010. It is a recuperative home where three teenage boys live with house parents who also happen to have three of their own children. The boys, Manu, Ghitza and Otto are learning daily living skills such as dressing, keeping their rooms clean, cooking, dishwashing and even helping with yard work.
Krista teaching Manu how to use the rake
Otto took a try and volunteering stocking shelves at a local grocery store and Manu has expressed interest in washing cars. Ghitza is a very hard worker and is a terrific help around Amy's House. Krista and Adi are the house parents. Their job is to help guide and develop the boys and to teach them basic skills with the goal of future independent or semi-independent living.Thanks to the Boyle family and the generous support of Fourth Presbyterian Church in Bethesda, MD, Amy's House is helping to brighten the future of these boys, who spent many years in the state orphanage system in Romania.


 Updates:
 - The traffic in Arad has gotten really bad over the past few years. So bad, in fact, that the mayor recently canceled much of the school bus service for the city so the roads wouldn't be as busy.

- I finally visited the woman who had the stroke in her home yesterday. She's had a pretty bad stroke and is very impaired unfortunately. Given the fact that she was aphasic and I didn't speak her language (going through a translator made things even more confusing for her) my time with her was made even more challenging.  But, I was able to teach the family a few things and hopefully she'll make some improvement over time with their assitance.

Alex and Emma
- Last Sunday, I had the 'privilege' of driving Alexandru and Emma of the Darius Houses home after they spent a day at church and having lunch with the Martin family. The kids are 9 and 10 years old and understand/speak very little English.  They were astounded when they heard I was going to drive them to the Darius Houses. They said (in Romanain).."Marti knows how to drive!?"  They sat in the back seat and when I put the key in the ignition and the car actually started they yelled "Bravo Marti!"  Then as I drove through the city they sweetly said.. 'rosu Marti', 'verde Marti', as I approached red (rosu) and green (verde) traffic lights...just in case I didn't see them.

- Capra update.. just today we FOUND a family who is very excited about receiving a brand new goat (capra)! We had one family all lined up and the goat delivery was to be yesterday, but then the family changed their mind and decided they wanted two pigs instead. So if all goes well I'll be able to finally report on the goat delivery sometime in the next couple of days..stay tuned!

Romanian Words of the Day:

Goat= capra (cap-ra)
Meeting= sedinta (sha-din-sa)
Green= verde (vear-day)
Red= rosu (ro-shay)

IMPORTANT NOTE:  There's still lots to share, but only a few more days left in RO. So be on the look out for 2 blog postings per day from here on out...

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Making Mercy Happen...

Old couch out, new couch in
As my month in Romania winds down, I thought you might enjoy seeing some of the many ways RCE extends/ has extended mercy to others while I have been here.  RCE employs some pretty amazing people who are gifted in ways that are hard to put into words. Every where you look you are touched by something or someone. RCE partners with individuals and families to help get specific needs met. Here a few of the many ways RCE is 'making mercy happen' in Romania...
 Project Caring provided a new couch for a mom with four children. They live in a small apartment and have only 2 beds. One of the beds is a couch during the day (very common in Romania), but it was broken and the Mom and one of her daughters didn't have a comfortable place to sleep. She saved some money and RCE matched what she raised. Here are a few of the children with Ovi and Vasile enjoying their new couch!
Hearing aides for this little boy- now he can hear!
This little boy lives in a poor village outside of Arad. When he was younger, it became apparent that he had profound hearing loss, but would benefit from hearing aides. Unfortunately the expense for the hearing aides was way too much for the family to take on. RCE helped provide some funds and now this young boy can  hear!

Elisie and Florin grew up in the state orphanage system in Romania. Without a family, and physically/mentally impaired, they had little hope of every getting out. Thanks to RCE's social team, BOTH Elisie and Florin now have a family!

Elise (front) and Florin (right)and their family!
Widow with 12 children and a new set of teeth!
Many years ago, in a village called Sintana
a woman with 12 children lost her husband suddenly. RCE heard her story and stepped in to help keep the family together. This meant coming alongside them to help assure they had a decent place to live, means for living off the land, and making sure all of the kids remained in school. One of the very last contributions to the family was helping restore some of the Mom's dignity by providing her with a full set of brand new teeth. Now every time she gets a visit from anyone from RCE, she greets them with a big giant SMILE!

 In the small village of Sistarovat (sis-taro-vich), the tiny baptist church needed a new roof. It was a big project that required lots of resources the church didn't have. RCE came into partnership with the church and helped provide materials and labor to install a new roof. Church members also helped out. The new roof was installed just last week and this Sunday the congregation will be together worshiping again!

Sistarovat Baptist Church
This young girl has many needs. She is currently under RCE's care at one of our recuperative Darius Houses. She has benefited from the expertise of one of our psychologists as RCE's social team looks for a family for her.

Many children in the small, poor, remote villages in Romania never have a chance at receiving a sound education. One of the ways RCE helps assure that there is a chance for a brighter future for these children is by finding creative ways to help them get to and stay in school.  The quality of the education provided at the village schools (if there even is one) is sub-standard while the education provided in the city schools is much better. RCE helps by providing school supplies, back packs and bus fare ($40-50 per month depending on the distance) so village children can get into the city, receive a quality education and have a brighter future. The girl on the left in the picture above is one of the many students receiving RCE's support. Her sister will soon follow.

Medical needs are great in Romania and so is the need for provision of vitamins, nutritional supplements and medicines of all kinds. RCE regularly helps families stay as healthy as possible by helping provide necessary medicines and medical care. 
This young boy from a family we visited in Fiscut needed surgery at the hospital in Arad. RCE helped cover some of the cost of the pre-surgical testing and some of the surgical cost.  He is home resting now and is doing fine.

Resting after surgery

A family that lives off the land needs animals. Especially if the family is large and can care for the animals. RCE helped make a dream come true for this man and his large family by providing a cow. Not every family can care for a cow, but this family has several older children that can help. When we went to look at the cow, the man was very pleased with the shape it was in and the amount of milk it produced each day. The cow will be delivered to his family this week.

A new home for a poor family...
yet another new home...
RCE works very closely with many poor families and adoptive families to assure that they have a decent place to live. This might mean adding an indoor bathroom to a home, an extra room for a newly adopted child, or in some cases helping build a new house entirely.

After School Program
A new group of orphans is emerging in Romania as many parents are emigrating to Spain, Italy and other European countries in order to find work. Their children are often left behind with older siblings grandparents, or other relatives. RCE has started providing an after school program in an elementary school that serves under-performing, poor students in one part of the city. The program provides tutoring by a trained teacher and volunteers, supervision of activities and a hot meal. This young boy is 10 years old and he's staying with his older sister while his mom is in Italy working. If the kids didn't have this program, the teacher told me, they would be on the street till late at night.

Back from the store with 'food package' supplies
RCE provides food packages for poor families each month. Doina prepares them and delivers them. She told me that they include the following: 3 cans of pate, so families have something ready made if an emergency arises; 2 bottles of cooking oil to use for cooking or to make margarine; 2 tubs of margarine used to put on sandwich bread for kids school lunches; 1 bag of rice used to make sarmale and other dishes such as orez cu lapte; 2 packages of noodles which can be boiled and made with cheese, walnuts or meat; 1 bag of flour always needed for many things including thickening stew so people feel full after they've eaten; 2 bags of sugar; and always something sweet such as a bag of cookies or crackers.

Romanian words of the day:

Days of the week:

Monday= Luni (loo-nee)
Tuesday= Marti (martz)
Wednesday= Miercuri (me-er-cur-i)
Thursday= Joi (zhoy)
Friday= Vineri (vin-ear-i)
Saturday= Sambata (sam-bah-ta)
Sunday= Duminica (du-min-ica)

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

La Multi Ani- Happy Birthday Teo!!

Today was a BIG day at the Sunshine School because long time student Teo turned 15 years old! Teo was one of the original Darius House kids and has been under RCE's care for many years now...since he was 4 years old. He was diagnosed with muscular dystrophy as a young boy and has been receiving physical therapy to help maintain the ability to sit, breath comfortably and to keep his tightening muscles as loose as possible. Teo also has a younger brother, Alex, who is 10 and has the same diagnosis. Alex currently lives at RCE's Darius House. Both boys were abandoned by their mother at a young age once it was discovered they had muscular dystrophy.

15 yo Teo and 10 yo brother Alex
Teo and Sunshine School Assistant Adina
Teo is a HUGE Los Angeles Lakers fan, so Mary Ann made sure that he had his very own Lakers jersey for his birthday.  The only catch was trying to find one in Romania.  We had several leads through the Romanian version of E-bay and finally found one available in the far Eastern part of Romania.  Carmen was able to call the owner by phone and when he heard Teo's story, he waived the shipping fee. He also told Carmen how thankful he was they had talked, because he had been wanting to start up an NGO to help orphan children for many years! They spoke loosely about some future collaboration..

Teo and his classmates
Teo celebrated his birthday at school with ALL of the Sunshine School students, assistants and teachers as well as other RCE staff! Everyone sang happy birthday and then Teo blew out the candles on a huge birthday cake that had a gigantic basketball on top of it. Teo has become quite the fan of American basketball over the past few years and is happy to tell anyone and everyone that Kobe Bryant is his favorite player. After he blew out the candles, Teo was given gifts by each of his classmates and then one big card from all of the classes at Sunshine School. He was also presented with a Lakers championship t-shirt and many cards and notes from his fans in the states. Teo was quick to tell everyone how happy he was! He also told many of us that he was soon going to be an 'adult'. It was fun to share his joy and many smiles with him.
Alex, Ovi and Teo
 Some other notes..

-  Had my first fish dinner in Romania last night.  Was invited to Darius House coordinator Lucian Bradean and his wife Elena's home. I forget the name of the kind of fish we had (it was a Romanian name I didn't recognize), but I DO remember that it was stuffed with apples and walnuts grown by the Bradeans. We also had vegetables, rice and a delicious pastry for dessert. All made by Elena!

- I will attend my first Romanian funeral tomorrow. A man that lived in one of the old folks homes run by Dr. Daria through another NGO, passed away today. Since Dr. Daria is out of town, she called Ovi and asked him to officiate at the service. Because the man doesn't have any known relatives, Ovi asked Doina and me to attend to fill out the 'congregation'. There was some talk about the 'American guest' singing a hymn solo, but I hope that was only talk...we'll see.

Paula, Damaris, Florinel, Angy
Orthotist and Damaris
- We took Sunshine School kids Damaris and Florinel to an orthotist (brace maker) today to talk about getting braces made for both of them so they can walk.  PTs Paula and Angy came as well as Doina who acted as my translator. It was an interesting hour as we waded through what was available in Romania (not much), how long it would take to get the braces (too long), and how much they would cost (too much). My experience in Romania has been that they tend to 'over brace' so we were hoping to prevent that from happening. In the end, I think we came up with a solution for Damaris that will work. We'll pursue some anti-spasticity medications for Florinel first. Which might be a tough sell because as much as they use medications in Romania it seems very few physicians are comfortable recommending these types of medicines. We'll see...

- We got the pictures for the homeless shelter folks printed. They will be distributed sometime this week!

Romanian words of the day:

Fish= peste (pesh-tay)
Rice= orez (o-rez)  * this is a review word! ..remember orez cu lapte (rice with milk)?
Orthosis (brace) = ortheza (or-teza)